These are the book that can help us by our-self. just read slowly the books that i recommended and i hope it can help you with any kind of your problems.
#10 The 4 Hour Workweek by Timothy Ferriss
#9 Getting Things Done: The Art of
Stress-Free Productivity by David Allen
#8 The Art of Happiness by The Dalai Lama
#7 Good To Great by Jim Collins
#6 The Road Less Traveled by M. Scott Peck
#5 Man’s Search for Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl
#4 How to Win Friends and Influence
People by Dale
Carnegie
#3 Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill
#2 The 7 Habits Of Highly Effective People by Stephen R. Covey
#1 The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle
There you go, i hope my list can help you.